Monday, 11 February 2013

Should I Cheat On Him?

Dear Readers,

I would prefer to go as Anonymous. I have been married for one an a half years now. I am a 28 year old woman. My husband and I decided not to have kids until after two years of marriage, to enable us enjoy the home before the kids come. Sometime last month, My husband was taking a shower after work.

His phone rang and I decided to take the call for him. That is not wrong because we take each other's calls – I am his wife now! My husband stored this number as Seyi. I quickly took the call and what I heard really shocked me: Baby, I have been trying to call you, why didn't you pick my calls on time? Are you home yet? I was stunned, just a year and a half into marriage and my hubby was already cheating on me? I answered the lady and told her I was Tunde's wife and she quickly dropped the call. When he came out of the bathroom, I confronted him and he didn't deny.

He asked me to forgive him, that it was the devil's handwork, that it would not repeat itself again – but it did. I feel betrayed and cheated. Why did he cheat on me? What will happen when we start having kids? Should I cheat on him, so i don't feel hurt when he does the same?

Please I need your honest opinions.


Anonymous said...

U don't have to cheat on him. Why don't u take time out to discuss ur disappointments with ur hubby & also pray abt it. There's nothing God cannot do.

Anonymous said...

You dnt hv to cheat on him,men are naturally dogs,give him the best of you he wil stil look for what is not up to your best,just be calm and choose to forgive him and move on,there is more to life jo

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