Friday 2 November 2012

For the ladies!!!

The rate at which marriages/relationships collapse now is almost assuming an acceptable celebrity status in our society.

In few years time, people will be throwing divorce parties, invites will be sent out calling friends to celebrate their divorce anniversaries. Won a mu aso-ebi, hire a hall, won a pe musician....even a question like " when are you getting divorced?" will be commonplace.

If u know u can't handle the weight and pressure of marriage, please remain single.

If u don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do.

If u are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person, or to satisfy your fantasies, please remain single.

Don't get married out of desperation because u think u are getting too old.

Don't just get married because of the pressure being mounted on u by your families. They are not the one getting married- you are!

You desire a successful home but your choice of friends are those whose marriages have collapsed. It is so simple- they'll make u drink from their poisoned chalice. Once that happens, your marriage is on a process of dying a slow death.

Be very mindful of where u go seeking for advice.

Guys, if u know u can't stay responsible please remain single until you mature. There's no way u can abandon the care of your family at the expense of your lifestyle. They are your priority and everything else including u comes last.
You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the spiritual leader, the role model- u are not a deity. Don't expect to be worshipped! You need respect, earn it by being responsible!

If u know you can't stand being corrected, please marry yourself. Don't throw away your spinsterhood garment if u see respect as a big deal.

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